Spanish etiquette: How to fit in like a local

When you embark on your Cuatro Ibérica Experience in Granada, you're not just learning a new language—you're also immersing yourself in a rich culture filled with unique customs and traditions. To make the most of your time in Spain and truly connect with the locals, it's essential to understand some basic Spanish etiquette. Here's a guide to help you navigate social situations like a pro and ensure you leave a positive impression!

1. Greetings: The importance of a warm welcome

In Spain, greetings are an essential part of social interaction. When meeting someone, it's customary to greet them with a friendly "¡Hola!" and a kiss on both cheeks (starting with the right). If you're greeting a friend or someone you know well, a firm handshake is also common.

Tip: When in doubt, mirror what others do. If someone offers their hand or leans in for a kiss on the cheek, follow their lead!

2. Dining etiquette: Meals and manners

Spanish mealtimes are different from what you might be used to. Lunch is typically served around 2:00 PM and dinner around 9:00 PM.

At the table, keep these tips in mind:

• Wait for everyone: Don't start eating until the host says "¡Buen provecho!" (Enjoy your meal).
• Use utensils properly: In Spain, it's common to keep your fork in your left hand and your knife in your right throughout the meal.
• Share tapas: If you're out for tapas, sharing is a big part of the experience. Feel free to pass plates around and encourage others to try what you've ordered.

Tip: If you want to be extra polite, compliment the food. A simple "¡Está muy rico!" will go a long way!

3. Socialising: Engaging in conversation

When socialising, Spaniards tend to be warm and expressive. Don't be surprised if conversations are lively and involve a lot of gestures! Here are a few conversation tips:

• Be friendly and open: Spaniards appreciate friendliness, so don't hesitate to ask questions and show interest in the people you meet.
• Avoid sensitive topics: Politics and religion can be sensitive subjects, especially with new acquaintances. It's best to stick to lighter topics like food, travel, or cultural experiences.
• Use "tú" vs. "usted": In informal settings, you'll use "tú" to address someone, while "usted" is more formal. If you're unsure, start with "usted" and let the other person indicate if you can switch to "tú".

Tip: Always listen actively and engage with what others are saying. Spaniards appreciate good conversation and are happy to share their stories!

4. Dress code: Look smart and stylish

Spaniards tend to dress well, and appearance matters in social settings. While casual attire is acceptable for day-to-day activities, try to look put together, especially when going out in the evenings. For example, it's common for young people to wear stylish clothes, even when heading out for a casual dinner.

Encourage them to talk to their host family, participate in lessons, and explore Granada with friends. The more they immerse themselves, the more they'll gain from the experience.

Tip: If you're unsure about what to wear for a specific occasion, ask your host family or friends for advice!

5. Understanding "siesta" culture

In Spain, the afternoon siesta is a time-honoured tradition. Many shops close from around 2:00 PM to 5:00 PM for a break, especially in smaller towns. While you may not experience a traditional siesta, be aware that many locals will take a break during the hottest part of the day. This doesn't mean they don't enjoy late nights; Spanish evenings often go late, especially during the summer!

Tip: Use this time to relax, explore, or take a leisurely stroll through the city!

6. Tipping: Showing appreciation

Tipping in Spain isn't as obligatory as it is in some other countries, but it is appreciated. If you've received good service at a restaurant, leaving a small tip—around 5-10% of the bill—is a nice gesture. For café or bar visits, it's common to round up the bill or leave some loose change.

Tip: When paying the bill, you can simply say "¿Me cobras?" (Can I pay?) or "La cuenta, por favor" (The check, please) to signal that you're ready to wrap up.

7. Being respectful: Cultural sensitivity matters

Finally, remember to be respectful of local customs and traditions. Spain is a country rich in history and culture, so being open-minded and willing to learn will endear you to the locals. Whether it's observing local festivals, respecting quiet hours, or participating in community events, showing appreciation for the culture will enhance your experience.

Tip: If you attend a local festival or event, don't hesitate to ask locals about the customs—most people love sharing their culture!

Embrace the experience!

As you prepare for your adventure in Granada, understanding Spanish etiquette will help you fit in seamlessly and make lasting connections with locals. Remember that every interaction is a chance to practise your Spanish and immerse yourself in a beautiful culture.

So, take a deep breath, embrace the customs, and get ready to make the most of your Cuatro Ibérica Experience. ¡Suerte!